Do you really think it's appropriate to take my sister to Florida to look for a new housennA new home to live in when my mother dies?nnDo you think it's appropriate to trivialize her feelings?nnHow can you tell this to your own mother when you go to Florida to visit her?nnHow can you treat this situation the way you do when you have a mother you love yourself?nnAren't you ashamed of yourself?nnYour wife isn't dead yet.nYour wife isn't dead yet.nYour wife isn't dead yet.nYour wife isn't dead yet.